Once
upon a time I had a wooden box that held women’s handkerchiefs from days gone
by. The handkerchiefs were small linen squares with intricate embroidery and tatted
lace edges. They were not the sort of handkerchiefs one would use for blowing
their nose, rather, they were a female’s companion to daub eyes in a teary
moment. You have likely seen old films or read historical novels where women
carried such handkerchiefs. Stories from that time often had chivalrous men who
would pull out their handkerchief to pass to a woman in their presence who were
crying. Reading and watching displays of handkerchief use, one might say that
the use of handkerchiefs was civilized; I suggest it was tradition and a ritual
that brought comfort, even healing.
A
moment ago, we heard a reading from the book of Revelation, where after death, God
is said to ‘wipe away every tear from their eyes.” This group of faithfully
departed were a group of early Jesus’ followers who had suffered much because
of their faith and the way they chose to live their life. During the days of
the Roman Empire, persecution - crucifixion, imprisonment, exile, death at the
hand of gladiators or wild animal in coliseums – was common for Christ
followers. Christ-followers were a group that were often scapegoats, after-all
Christianity was forbidden by Roman Law; they were identified as opposing the
Empire, not worshipping the Emperor as god, choosing not to participate in
cultural rituals but instead having weird rituals of their own. Much to the
chagrin of the Empire, Christ-followers shared their resources, continued to
gather for prayer, cared for the poor and forgotten, and empowered the lowly
with hope. The Book of Revelation has
Christian martyrs honoured before God’s throne after death; death is written
about as a reward after the perils and tribulations of earthly life. Before God,
and in the glory of God, those living through turmoil and persecution can rest
their hope in the life to come. And their present tears– every tear will be
wiped away.
I
would love for present tears -every tear to be wiped away. What I mean by that,
is that I relish a time when circumstances that make me want to ‘ugly cry’
would cease – the circumstances and events that break my heart, disturb my
spirit, and weigh heavy. There are many tears in our world, much is lost daily.
We grieve: the death of loved ones, the loss of jobs, lack of stability… We
grieve: the lack of peace, safe places for the displaced and homeless, failing
systems, increasing temperatures, and sweeping change. The world and its people
carry much grief, many tears. To hear the words, the promise, God will wipe
away all tears from their eyes, speaks to a change from what currently is. I
imagine a place where everyone’s needs are met, where all are welcome, where
fear melts away, where there is joy in living, where relationships are whole…
where tears of joy, tears from laughing-so-hard are the norm.
The
Bible appears in many translations; one of the newest is the First Nations
Version of the New Testament. Curators of this version have this unique and
beautiful way of translating the text from Revelation:
…like
a shepherd watches over his sheep. He will guide them to springs of life-giving
water, and there the Great Spirit will perform the wiping of tears ceremony for
each of them. Rev. 7: 17b (FNV)
Is
this not a beautiful thought, the Great Spirit will perform the wiping of
tears ceremony for each of them?
In
my last parish there was a woman who on most Sundays, at some point between the
sermon and communion, would have tears that freely streamed down her cheeks. The
tears came once she had settled, attuned to the sacred space, opened her heart.
It was the space she felt closest to God, at peace, at one with a son she had
lost many years before; it was a safe place to grieve, to rejoice, to let it
all out. I always appreciated this woman’s faith shown by the way she lived
life – and how Sunday tears were an expression of an undying love – she was not
embarrassed to shed tears in front of others. She was not hindered by what
others might think. The tears were part of her weekly offering, a giving of
herself, from the depths of her being. They were a prayer of love and healing. In
her coming to sacred space each week and shedding tears of undying love, the
Great Spirit reached out for the wiping of tears ceremony, touching and healing
her so that she could back into the world sharing love and hope for another
week.
Earlier
we heard the words, Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be
comforted. The First Nations Version of the text reads: Creator’s blessing
rests on the ones who walk a trail of tears, for he will wipe the tears from
their eyes and comfort them. Mt. 5: 4 (FNV)
Blessing
rests on the ones who walk a trail of tears –
This
morning I am going to own this text! And invite you to walk a trail of tears
too.
Washington
Irving wrote:
There
is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness but of power. They
speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of
overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love.
In
this sacred space, where I feel safe, where I feel belonging, where I feel like
I am being embraced, I am going to give myself permission to participate in the
Great Spirit’s wiping of tears ceremony; meaning tears may very well stream
down my face as I express my undying love – an undying love for those who have
died, for those who are grieving, for those who sick, for those wrestling with
mental illness, those living in tents, those fleeing war or separated from
family, those in refuges camps, those whose futures are uncertain… for the
multitude of people I carry in my heart… for a hurting world, for all the things
-people, systems, situations- that I can not fix. Today I cry from my heart
undying love – tears that are prayers.
The
box of handkerchiefs that I had, once belonged to grandmothers and
great-grandmothers. One of my grandmothers had a ritual, where in intimate
moments she would look me in the eye, and carefully stroke my face as she tucked
the hair around my face behind my ears. She didn’t do it very often, but I
remember how it felt. I sense the same feeling when I consider the Great Spirit
and the wiping of tears ceremony. In that moment, all is well. All is quiet.
All is pure love. All is healed. All is whole.
This
morning I thank all of you for coming to honour your loved ones, for taking
time from your busy lives to pause and remember; to open your hearts and shed a
tear or two of undying love. My prayer -my tears of undying love- for you, are
that you feel God’s presence and care for you, that you experience healing, and
wholeness, that for this week the undying love you have felt will be lived
through every moment of each day. This sacred space is here, today, tomorrow,
and the next. This sacred space is offered to you with love, you are always
welcome! As a community we welcome tears, tears that are our expression of
undying love, a love that prays for the healing of the whole world.
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