Saturday, December 17, 2022

Advent 4: Dressing for Decision-Making

 Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

 

This Sunday -a week before Christmas, scripture texts have us reflect on the choices we make and how God contributes to decision-making processes.

 

We heard a small portion of Isaiah’s recount of King Ahaz faced with decisions as to how he would secure his throne and the kingdom of Judah; choices of military action, diplomatic envoy, or something different. In his decision, Ahaz is also forced to consider ensuring a space where the people can continue covenant living and freedom to worship God. The prophet (Isaiah) continually speaks the word of God to Ahaz: have faith, be patient, believe. Ahaz chooses to not be patient.

 

We heard from the Gospel of Matthew the lesser told Christmas story (a story with no angels, shepherds, or stable). Instead, we hear of a man named Joseph, faced with a decision of how to address Mary his wife-to-be who is pregnant, and not with his child. His choices: publicly shame, quietly dismiss, or do something different. While pondering what to do, an angel appears in a dream suggesting he stay with Mary, welcome the child, and name him Jesus.

 

We will hear and sing, People, Look East, as our closing hymn. It was written by Eleanor Farjeon, a beloved and well-known children’s author. Her collection included more than 80 books, poems, and nursey rhymes. She used her skills to offer many images to get across complex ideas. She was loved by children as her works often mocked the behaviour of self-righteous adults. She won many awards. But, on one occasion she made a decision – a choice that shocked people- Eleanor refused to accept the prestigious British title, Dame – saying that she “did not wish to become different from the milkman.”

 

We will hear in a few minutes, Christina Techlemariam, make public confession of her faith, choosing to take on the responsibility of baptismal vows made by her parents when she was little.

 

There is much that we hear this Sunday that has us reflect on the choices we make and how God contributes to the decision-making process.

 

It is worth reflecting on. How do you make choices and how does God contribute to the decision-making process? It is the ‘God part’ that interests me the most.

King Ahaz had God’s prophet. Joseph had God’s angel in a dream.

Eleanor had an imagination, along with a library, theatre, opera, and conversation circles in each. Did God speak through moments of wonder and in mediums of art?

Christina has a family, confirmation classmates, and a whole community of faith. Does God enter decision-making processes through these?

 

Advent is a season of prophets and angels, wonder and mystery, hope and promise – a call to humans to be patient and wait on the Lord, be silent and listen for Emmanuel-God-with-us; and be ready! Prepared to be surprised where God enters life’s decision-making processes.  Family, community of faith, scripture, imagination, music, books, art, conversation… How do you know it is God?

How do you know? Perhaps it is not about knowing, but, rather, being prepared, so that you can confidently be open to hearing different options when making decisions. In the examples heard this morning people have prepared by selecting the who and whats around them; trusting in their council, even through sometimes not following that council. Israel’s governance had court prophets to bring God’s word, Joseph belonged to a tradition of faith that spoke to a rich history of God in dreams, Eleanor grew up with artistic folk and group of intelligentsia, Christina has a family and faith community.  

Hand-in-hand with preparing ourselves by surrounding oneself with good council, is seeking God’s choices. The season of Advent lends itself to the contemplation to know if council is God-council. When God enters decision-making processes the spirit (the message) reflects the themes of Advent: hope, love, peace, joy. To be prepared and open to hearing hope, love, peace, and joy is to allow God to enter the decisions we make. Choices made then, become a reflection of one or all of these - hope, love, peace, and joy.

 

I read a comment by comedian Demetri Martin, who said: “I think that when you get dressed in the morning, sometimes you’re really making a decision about your behaviour for the day. Like if you put on flipflops, you’re saying: ‘Hope I don’t get chased today.’ ‘Be nice to people in sneakers.’

 

Advent advice on being ready! When you start each day, make a decision about your behaviour for the day – how will you dress? What will you anticipate? For what, will you prepare?

The idea is to articulate and focus one’s intentions for the day.  

My personal mission statement is that I live each day, to be a courageous and passionate expression of God’s grace. This intention affects how I participate in the world, the choices and decisions I make, to what I am open to, to what I anticipate, to how I hear, see, feel God-with-us.

 

As Advent draws to a close, continue to carry with you and practice the themes of the season.

As you dress for your day – make a decision about your behaviour for the day and dress accordingly.

Begin by stepping into a prayer, or a good-morning God; embrace yourself in a hug; a remembrance of baptism as you wash your face. Dress by setting a smile on the face, …set your ears to listen for God-with-us…ready to receive the themes of Advent.

And be prepared, in turn, to be a participant in God’s part of decision-making processes.

 

Dress with hope, ready to love, share peace, and express joy.

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